Control Drama's
"When you forgive, you love - and when you love, god's light shines on you"
- Into The Wild
It is true that when you forgive, you love; but to forgive you must first understand.
What you are about to read could monumentally improve, and create peace in every relationship in your life.
Have you ever been in a situation where someone has intimidated you, and consequently you felt completely drained and weak? How about a situation
where you see someone who looks sad, so you sympathetically ask them what's wrong, and as they tell you, you begin to feel robbed of energy?
Human beings are addicted to drama, which they create either consciously or on a subconscious level. Why do we create drama?
As energy beings, we are constantly looking to acquire more energy - sometimes called chi, orgone, prana,
ether,
or life force - higher vibrations to lift us
up and strengthen
our essence.
Is this energy real, or imagined?
First discovered in the 1930's by a Russian Scientist named Semion Kirlian, science has been able to capture this energy on video's and photograph's.
Today, researchers such as Dr. Korotkov, use Gas Discharge Visualization cameras to measure energy and aura's in anything, whether it is living or non-
living.
Capturing the Life Force Energy
Here are some pictures taken using a GDV Camera:
GDV Leaf
GDV Leaf 2
GDV Butterfly
GDV Hand
GDV Human Body
In both situations from above, that left you feeling weak and drained of energy, a control drama was played against you, and consequently
your energy
was stolen.
"Where attention goes, Energy Flows"
- Universal Principal
Control Drama's
A control drama, as depicted in The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield, is played by anyone
who is low on
spiritual energy, to manipulate and steal the energy of another. This spiritual energy
is
absolutely critical for our
survival, and lack thereof is the prime cause of ALL conflict in the world.
So why do we do them?
When two people begin an interaction, their energy fields merge
into one and there comes the issue
of, who is going to control this energy? If one can get the other to accept their point of
view, and
see
the world as he see's it, then he has captured both energies, resulting in an instant feeling of
euphoria, power, and security.
All of these positive feelings are won at the expense of another
person, who then feels off-centre,
anxious and drained of energy.
All of these control drama's originate from your childhood, as a defensive measure to counteract the
control drama's that your parents played to steal energy from you.
There are 4 types of control drama's:
- Intimidator
- Interrogator
- Aloof
- 'Poor Me'
The Intimidator
For many kids growing up, one or both parents would take a stance of intimidation, and
entice their child into feeling afraid and powerless.
They would yell at you, scream at you, and ultimately send you to
your
room, leaving you feeling
weak, powerless and drained of energy.
Struggles like these can often be very intense and even traumatic for a
child, and as a result, you developed your own
control drama to fight back for that
energy. Most respond at first with a 'poor me' drama, where one creates a
guilt trip for the intimidator, and if they respond to this, the child will get energy
in return, and will continue using that style of control drama throughout their life.
But if the 'poor me' posture goes unnoticed, the only remaining option for the child is to explode into an intimidator themselves, in attempts to regain their
stolen energy. Once this works, the child will exploit the intimidator stance regularly when they're low on energy.
An intimidator may be a very loud and talkative person who tries to force you to give them your attention (energy) by listening to what they have to say.
They may also be the type of person, who leaves you finding yourself looking over your shoulder, to see where they are and what they will do next.
Devoting your conscious attention to figuring out where someone is, or what they will do, creates a flow of energy to that person.
The Interrogator
An 'Interrogator' is someone who criticizes another, probing into their world with the specific purpose of finding
something wrong. Once this is found they pounce,
and criticize this aspect of the other's life. This type of
control
drama will leave
you feeling self-conscious around the interrogator, wondering what they are
thinking.
If your parent's acted this way, you may have interrogated in return, or developed the 'aloof's
front - lacking
concern and
sympathy - in hopes they would feel like their interrogation is failing, and a resultant energy transfer would occur in your
favor. Whichever one worked on your parents would be
the same one you use prevalently throughout your life, to this
very day.
The Aloof
The aloof control drama is perpetrated by distancing onesself from situations
and
spontaneously acting out to gather people's
attention and energy.
If your parents were distant from you as a child, you were not receiving enough of the nurturing, and loving energy as a child may
require.
The control
drama you
may have developed to end the distancing would most
likely be that of The Interrogator.
You would
criticize a characteristic or
behaviour of theirs to end the distancing, and
subsequently,
steal the energy
you needed from them.
The 'Poor Me' Drama
The 'Poor Me' drama is characterized by creating a guilt-trip towards another
person, in turn
making them feel
at fault, resulting in the much-desired
transfer of energy.
Typically, this type of person is quiet, often anxiously waiting for someone
to come and ask them what's wrong.
If someone does come and ask what's wrong, this attention is then exchanged. Attention is energy; thoughts
are energy; and thus,
somebody
thinking of
you translates into energy
received.
If this doesn't work for the person, often one will attempt the Aloof control
drama until
their 'energy tank' is
replenished, and their insecurities are
temporarily forgotten.
The Bottom Line:
There is a constant battle between people to steal eachother's energy. This matter of energy is the cause of
ALL conflict in the world and the reason that people feel the need to control others. No human being can
evolve until they become consciously aware of the drama they use to manipulate others for energy.
Figure out what drama or drama's you use (it could be more than one) to manipulate for energy, then I'll tell
you how to acquire more energy, so that you never have to be in conflict with anyone, ever again.
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